Modernization of Family Law in Germany: New Realities and Parents’ Rights

New Realities in Family Law

In October 2025, Germany hosted a conference on the modernization of family law. Lawyers, judges, and family law specialists discussed planned legislative changes aimed at making the legal system more flexible and better aligned with contemporary family models.

Family structures in Germany have changed significantly in recent years. The number of patchwork and single-parent families is increasing, children more often live alternately with both parents after a separation or divorce, and the number of non-married families continues to grow. Traditional legal provisions no longer always reflect these realities, so the reform aims for a fairer distribution of rights and responsibilities.

Joint Custody and Child Support: Fair Distribution of Costs

A key focus of the reform is joint custody and child support. Currently, financial responsibility often falls disproportionately on one parent, even when the child spends equal time with both. The new regulations aim to balance child support calculations and distribute costs according to the actual family situation.

Fathers’ Rights and Children’s Participation in Decisions

The reform also takes into account the rights of fathers who were not married to the child’s mother. It will become easier for active fathers to obtain joint custody, promoting equality between parents.

Additionally, children’s rights to maintain contact with relatives, including grandparents and siblings, will be strengthened. Children aged 14 and older will have their opinions considered in decisions regarding custody and residence. This aligns with European standards, where the child’s best interests are the top priority.

Impact on Legal Practice

For lawyers and advisors, the reform means adapting established approaches to family cases. Mediation and out-of-court dispute resolution will become more important, as the law encourages parents to reach agreements rather than immediately going to court.

Conclusion: New Opportunities for Families

The 2025 modernization of family law reflects the realities of modern German families, promotes parental equality, and protects children’s interests. The reform helps lawyers provide more precise guidance to families and enables parents to manage their relationships in the best interests of their children under the new legal framework.